As parents, we want the best for our children and hope that they grow up to be responsible, respectful adults. However, as our teenage boys navigate through the complexities of adolescence, they may encounter challenges with their sexuality. This can be a difficult and confusing time for both parents and their sons. If you are a parent of a teenage boy struggling with problematic, inappropriate, or compulsive sexual behaviors, know that you are not alone. There are many resources available to help you support your child and guide them towards healthy, respectful attitudes towards sexuality. In this blog post, we will explore some of these resources and how they can assist you in addressing your son's problematic sexual behaviors.
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Role of Professional Therapy: When and How to Seek Help
When it comes to addressing your son's problematic sexual behaviors, professional therapy can play a crucial role in providing guidance and support. Finding a CSAT therapist who specializes in working with adolescents and sexual issues is key. They can help your son understand and manage his behaviors, while also offering you valuable guidance as a parent. If you're unsure of how to find a qualified therapist, don't worry. There are resources available to help you navigate this process and connect with the right professional for your son's needs. Remember, seeking professional help is a proactive step towards healing and growth.
Healing The Shame-Based Self: Why It's So Important To Address And Heal The Shame That You And Your Son Both Feel
Healing the shame-based self is an essential step in addressing your son's problematic sexual behaviors. Shame can be a powerful and damaging emotion, leading to feelings of guilt, self-blame, and low self-esteem. By acknowledging and addressing the shame that both you and your son may be experiencing, you create a foundation for healing and growth. Through therapy and support, you can help your son develop a healthier relationship with his sexuality, free from the weight of shame. Remember, you are not alone in this journey.
How to Open a Dialogue: Communicating Effectively with Your Teenager About His Sexual Behaviors
It can be daunting to initiate a conversation with your teenage son about his problematic sexual behaviors, but effective communication is essential in addressing these issues. Start by creating a safe and non-judgmental space where he feels comfortable opening up. Choose a time when you both are calm and relaxed, and approach the topic with empathy and understanding. Ask open-ended questions and listen attentively without interrupting. Remember, your goal is to support and guide him towards healthier behaviors, so be patient and willing to explore his feelings and experiences.
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Parent Participation in Our Family Treatment Program
At our academy, we understand the importance of involving parents in the treatment process. We believe that family support and participation are vital in helping your teenage son overcome his problematic sexual behaviors. Our Family Treatment Program offers a comprehensive approach that includes family therapy sessions and parent seminars. Through these sessions, you will learn effective strategies to support your son, gain a better understanding of his challenges, and strengthen your family dynamics. We are committed to walking this journey with you and providing the support you need.
Access The Parent Portal
With Oxbow Academy's Parent Portal, you will have exclusive access to information about your son's progress in treatment. This portal is designed to provide you with updates on his therapeutic and academic progress, giving you peace of mind as you support him through his journey. Not only will you be able to monitor his growth, but you will also have the opportunity to enjoy pictures from special events and daily living activities.
Enrolling in our program allows you to set up your own username and password for the Parent Portal, ensuring the confidentiality of your son's information. This secure platform encourages open communication and collaboration between you and the Oxbow staff. You are encouraged to use this portal to send any questions or comments you may have, knowing that our team is here to support you every step of the way.
We understand that as a parent, you want to be actively involved in your son's treatment and progress. The Parent Portal is just one of the many ways we strive to keep you informed and engaged in his healing journey. We believe that together, we can make a positive difference in your family's life.
Resource Guide: Recommended Reading
Finding helpful resources to navigate your son's problematic sexual behaviors can be challenging. To assist you on this journey, we have compiled a resource guide of recommended reading. These books cover a wide range of topics, including adolescent sexuality, understanding problematic behaviors, and effective strategies for supporting your child. These books offer valuable insights and guidance. Dive into these recommended readings to gain a deeper understanding and find practical solutions for supporting your son:
- Harmful Sexual Behaviour in Young Children and Pre-Teens
- Children and Adolescents with Problematic Sexual Behaviors: Lessons from Research on Resilience
- Treatment For Youth With Sexual Behavior Problems: A Practical Guide For Identifying Treatment Programs That Empower Clients And Transform Lives
- Sand Therapy for Out of Control Sexual Behavior, Shame, and Trauma
- It's Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction
Listen to Our Podcast
Listen to our podcast about helping teens with problematic sexual behaviors. In the first season, we address the important topic of "What parents should do upon finding out their teen has sexually abused another child." We then delve into the connection between "Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and problematic sexual behaviors," providing valuable insights and strategies for parents navigating these unique challenges. Our podcast aims to offer support, education, and guidance to parents like you who are seeking answers and understanding. Tune in and gain valuable insights from our experts in the field.
Frequently Asked Questions About Hyersexuality Treatment for Teens
We understand that you may have many questions and concerns about hypersexuality treatment for your teenage son. Here are some frequently asked questions to provide you with more information:
Hypersexuality treatment focuses on addressing problematic sexual behaviors in teenagers. It aims to help them develop healthier attitudes towards sexuality, manage their behaviors, and understand the underlying causes.
If your son is engaging in inappropriate, compulsive, or problematic sexual behaviors that are causing distress to himself or others, it may be time to seek professional help. A qualified therapist can assess the situation and determine if hypersexuality treatment is necessary.
Hypersexuality treatment may include various therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychoeducation, family therapy, and group therapy. The specific therapy methods used will depend on the individual needs of your son.
The duration of hypersexuality treatment can vary depending on the severity of your son's behaviors and his response to therapy. It may last for several months to a year or more. Your son's therapist will work closely with you to develop a treatment plan and discuss the estimated length of treatment.
Medication may be recommended in some cases, particularly if there are co-occurring mental health conditions, such as anxiety or depression. However, the use of medication will be determined by a qualified mental health professional after a thorough assessment.
Yes. At Oxbow Academy, you don't have to worry about choosing therapy over academics. Here, academics and therapy go hand-in-hand. Your teen will be part of a small, nurturing learning community. The school runs year-round. This scheduling will give your student the chance to catch up and keep up with their peers.
Educate Yourself With Our Blog and Articles From Our Experts
Listen to our podcast about helping teens with problematic sexual behaviors. In the first season, we address the important topic of "What parents should do upon finding out their teen has sexually abused another child." We then delve into the connection between "Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and problematic sexual behaviors," providing valuable insights and strategies for parents navigating these unique challenges. Our podcast aims to offer support, education, and guidance to parents like you who are seeking answers and understanding. Tune in and gain valuable insights from our experts in the field.
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While there is an epidemic of sex and porn addiction, somehow, families always feel as if they are facing the challenge alone. But you are not alone.
Your family can be whole again. There are many resources available to help. You can have your son and your family back.
For example, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) offers a free helpline. The helpline operator will help you find the right resources for your family.
Another option is to find specialized treatment for your son. Oxbow Academy provides specialized treatment for sex and porn addiction. The school exclusively works with teen boys between the ages of 13 and 17, we are located in Utah.
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Your teen can recover from sexual behavioral problems. Contact one of our trained representatives for a free, private consultation at 855-676-4272.